Grief and Loss Therapy in Ontario

There's no right way to grieve, and no deadline for it. Our therapists offer grief counselling in person in Mississauga and online across Ontario, so you can take the time you need.

There's no time limit on grief

The outside world often tells you it's time to move on. We don't. You don't have to get through grief quickly. Whether your loss happened last month or years ago, we sit with you and let you take the time you need to process it.

  • The death of a family member or friend

  • The loss of a pet

  • A miscarriage

  • A relationship that ended

  • A big move, from one city or country to another

  • A job you lost

  • The life you expected to have

Grief isn't only about death. You might be grieving:

Grief looks different for everyone. You might be:

  • Unsure how to move forward

  • Emotionally drained, or numb

  • Struggling to find meaning

  • Carrying guilt or regret

  • Feeling disconnected from yourself and the people around you

  • Stuck in painful memories

  • Avoiding things that remind you of who or what you lost

  • Struggling to accept the loss

  • Overwhelmed with sadness

How grief can show up

How grief affects your body, mind and spirit

In your body

  • Physical exhaustion

  • A heaviness in your body

  • Trouble sleeping

  • A hard time concentrating

  • Loss of appetite

In your feelings

It's normal to feel relief, anger, or even nothing at all after a loss, and then feel guilty about it. We don't judge those feelings. Using Emotion-Focused Therapy, we try to understand why they're coming up for you. Often, what you feel on the surface is just the tip of the iceberg. Together, we gently explore the feelings underneath.

In your faith and beliefs

Loss can bring up big questions about faith, meaning and why this happened. If your faith or spirituality is part of how you grieve, we welcome it in your sessions. It's something we explore with you, not something we shy away from.

Before a loss, too

You can grieve someone who is still here. If a loved one is very ill and you're already feeling the loss, we can support you through that anticipatory grief.

When should you reach out?

Whenever it feels right for you. That might be right after a loss, or six months, a year or two years later. It often depends on how stuck you're feeling and how much grief has taken over your life. There's no wrong time to get support.

How grief counselling works with us

We make space for you to talk about whatever is on your mind: what the loss means to you, and, when someone has died, how to keep a connection with them rather than being told to let go.

Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT focuses on the feelings you're having right now. Instead of suppressing them or trying to let go faster, we work through them together and explore what sits underneath the sadness.

Narrative therapy

Grief can take over your story. Narrative therapy helps you separate yourself from the problem and gently re-author your story. That includes reclaiming lost stories: the good moments you may have forgotten. After a death, it's common to remember only the painful experience of losing someone. Together we bring back the moments of happiness too.

Grieving together

Grief counselling is usually one-on-one. If your therapist also works with couples, your partner may be able to join for a session or two, so you can support each other through the loss, for example after a miscarriage. Ask about this during your free consult.

Why People Across Ontario Trust The Therapy Couch

Since 2023, we've supported 300+ clients, most of them South Asian women working through family pressure, marriage, boundaries and burnout. Every therapist on our team is a South Asian woman who understands the balance you're trying to find.

  • 300+ clients supported since 2023

  • We have many years of experience as therapists

  • Registered Psychotherapists and RPs (Qualifying) with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO)

  • Evening and weekend sessions to fit around work and family

  • The right fit matters. If it doesn't feel right, you can switch to another therapist on our team.

  • Sliding-scale fees with every therapist

We service clients across Ontario, online. Whether you're in Toronto, Mississauga, Oakville, Markham, Burlington, Milton, Ajax, Whitby or Pickering, you can meet with us by secure video from wherever you feel comfortable.

Meet the Clinicians

  • Maryum Rahman-Registered Psychotherapist, MA.

    Languages: Hindi and Urdu

    Offers virtual therapy

    Works with: Individuals and Couples

    Specialties: Anxiety, family issues, marriage counselling and depression

    ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS

  • Rida Ahmad-Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA

    Languages: Hindi and Urdu

    Offers virtual therapy

    Works with: Individuals

    Specialties: anxiety, self doubt, caregiver burnout, depression and postpartum mothers

    ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS

  • Sukhmeet Brar Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP

    Languages: Hindi and Punjabi

    Offers virtual therapy and In person

    Works with: Individuals

    Specialties: anxiety, family issues, depression, low self esteem, and burnout

    ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS

  • Alia Siddiqi Registered Psychotherapist, MC

    Languages: Hindi and Urdu

    Offers virtual therapy

    Works with: Individuals and Couples

    Specialties: Life transitions, burnout, family issues, depression and anxiety

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Our Step-By-Step Therapy Process

Step 1: Reach Out

Book online, submit a form or call (416)-710-1381. Tell us a little about what's going on, in your relationship or with family, friends, or work and whether you're coming as a couple or on your own.

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Step 2: The Free 15-Minute Consult

We'll talk about what's going on. In your relationship or with family, friends, or work and answer your questions. No pressure, no commitment.

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Step 3: Your First Session

We'll explore what's bringing you in, the patterns you keep running into, and what you want to change. Together, we'll set clear goals for your work.

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Step 4: Ongoing Sessions

Sessions are virtual, from anywhere in Ontario. We use an integrative approach to help you reach your goals, working on what's underneath the conflict and giving you practical tools to use between sessions. Book and manage appointments through our Client Portal.

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Step 5: Moving Forward

Every journey is different. Some clients feel relief within a few months; others choose longer-term therapy to keep growing. You decide the pace.

Frequently Asked Questions

How to Get Started?

Start with a free consultation. Ask your questions and see if we’re the right fit. Book online with the Book a Free Consult button below, or send us a message using the form.

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